Posts in Healing
Lost

My initial goal with this blog was to post a couple times a week. To share what I am feeling, how we’ve been doing, and details of life in between. And to be honest, I was hoping to help someone. I thought that if I am enduring this pain, and surviving, and able to push through- I would want to help someone else do the same. I last launched my blog over a month ago, and here I am writing- not feeling like the same person.

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Healing, Our LifeTressa Affeld
Our Story

My purpose in sharing our story, is so that I may be able give insight into our life. Before & after we lost Cale. He is a part of every aspect of our life forever. Even more so now. I also want to answer to some of the curiosity of what happened to him. To share the intense details so that you can truly understand our journey, and our faith as well….

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Our Life, HealingTressa Affeld
Broken, but Beautiful

The first days without him meant so much to me, even through my deep pain. You could say I was in shock, and I actually was- but there were things happened in those first few days that comforted me, and saved me during my darkest moments.

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Healing, Our LifeTressa Affeld
Healing

One of the biggest parts of my healing has been a journey of self discovery. I only know the me with Cale.That’s what happens when you fall in love with someone at 18, they’re your actual best friend, they grow with you. You grow together. I only know the me that was in love with him, being loved by him, and living life with him. When he passed away…

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Our Life, HealingTressa Affeld